Connecting to others and feeling loved is a basic human need. And yet, whether we are in a relationship or not we can struggle to feel that sense of intimacy and connection. I know. I have been single, I have been married and divorced and a single parent. I have blended a family. There is no magic person that comes along and makes everything ok. And there is no peace in isolating yourself.
Until you are willing to do the work and discover who you are, where your wounds need healing, what your triggers are and how to collapse unhealthy expectations and beliefs you remain separate. Your unconscious beliefs create patterns and these can be obstacles that stand between you and the deeply intimate relationship you desire.
When you are ready to be open and honest with yourself you can take down the walls and remove the masks.
It is in this place of authenticity that true connection awaits you. First, with yourself and then with a partner who is attracted to the positive, clear vibration that is you.
It may mean you discover that you are able to stay and build a loving partnership or it may mean having the courage to recognize that you need to compassionately start a new chapter of your life. It may mean braving out into dating again or it may mean taking time out to focus on yourself for a time. You gain the clarity, strength and freedom to make conscious choices in your life.
I would like to help you on this healing journey. I know that love, intimacy and connection is possible for you.